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Why would a spouse cheat if the marriage is good?

Last Updated: 22.06.2025 10:21

Why would a spouse cheat if the marriage is good?

Nothing perfect - It's not acceptable if it's not perfect - but only the other one !

For exciting and intensely satisfying sex that is deprived or denied or not understood of each other's needs - quick judgments " My husband watches porn " If it's not porn - it's his drinking - he spends more time with his friends- he doesn't share the work around the house - he doesn't talk - doesn't respect my family - not working enough - Headaches - Fibromyalgia- TMJ - size - ED and the list grows from a page to a size of 2 PDR's.

Millions of excuses - Reasons - constant fighting - arguments- And always something wrong with the other- no self reflection -

Dear atheist, do you realise that there is a God watching over you who will one day judge and condemn you for every wrong thing you have said and done before casting you into the lake of fire?

My own imperfections is not the reason - you see …. !

Point being - Marriage seems to be good to others - it's not - it has no passion in it - and two people come to live together as room mates and share their expense - to keep their secret from others the lips get sealed - of having separate beds and separate accounts

Grass looks green elsewhere - begins the cheating - And to get what - ? SEX.

How do you say "I don't speak Italian yet, but I hope to speak it well one day. It would be a pleasure to learn Italian with you. Would you like to teach me Italian?" in Italian?

so begins the first step heading towards separation and divorce which becomes the battle ground- my TV - my sofa - my bed - my - my - my ……..